Contemplative Curiosity: Dr. Gerald May on Making Friends with Mystery
A Spacious Spiritual Practice
For this practice, settle into your space for 10-ish minutes of presence. Let’s connect to the present moment by noticing what comes up as we read this selection. We aren’t approaching these words with the intention of an outcome, though it’s possible something will stick with us. This invitation is to enter in and notice what it stirs in you.
Practice Instructions (use them or skip them!):
What is it like around you in this moment? What is it like inside?
Read the following quote (either silently or aloud) 1-2 times. Imagine the words being poured out into your hands. See if a couple of words linger that you can turn toward with curiosity.
What do you notice? Are there words or phrases that linger? Or perhaps you have a felt sense of the entire quote.
Read the quote again.
What do you wonder? As you hold what you noticed, or the entire quote, is there a question that arises in you? Is there a cascade of questions? Sometimes writing these down helps us gently excavate our inner landscape.
Bookmark it. Is there a word, phrase, or question you’d like to carry with you (in a journal, to explore in a conversation with a friend, to spiritual direction)?
Savoring & Appreciation. You took some moments to be present. This was the invitation. Whether or not you experienced something that sticks with you, consider savoring the experience.
“When we were children, most of us were good friends with mystery. The world was full of it and we loved it. Then as we grew older, we slowly accepted the indoctrination that mystery exists only to be solved. For many of us, mystery became an adversary; unknowing became a weakness. The contemplative spiritual life is an ongoing reversal of this adjustment. It is a slow and sometimes painful process of becoming ‘as little children’ again, in which we make friends with mystery and finally fall in love again with it. And in that love, we find an ever increasing freedom to be who we really are in an identity that is continually emerging and never defined. We are freed to join the dance of life without having a clue what the steps are.”
Contemplate the image. You may try a similar exercise with the image above. What do you notice? What do you wonder? Are you drawn to the image? Do you resist it?
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