Grounding + Becoming
A Soulspace Wisdom Cross-Pollination
Listen for what is already in you, the seed within reaching toward sunlight
What I need for the terrain ahead seems to be mysteriously sprinkled around me days, weeks, months, or even years before I need it. There is an inexplicable resonance—a knowing that doesn’t conform to my linear timeline and context.
I recognize it.
Wisdom cannot be known with the mind alone; it animates within me. I am known, and I know.
And still, I forget.
Practices draw me back to the center. I return. I drink deeply. I remember.
There is spaciousness inside to keep going.
Follow what draws you.
Notice what stirs.
What is recognition like for you?
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Why trauma-informed spiritual direction?
In trauma-informed spiritual direction, we seek to recover and deepen a direct connection with wisdom.
Sunrise/Sunset: A Practice for Awakening a Weary Soul
When you attend to the way the dawn comes, you learn how light can coax the dark. Quietly before you is the mystery of a new dawn, the new day. —John O’Donohue
Trees, a poem by Howard Nemerov
Here’s an invitation to engage with poetry as a prism for Spirit. What words shimmer for you in this poem?
Trauma and the Nervous System, A Polyvagal Perspective
This 8-minute video is the best resource I’ve found to simply explain how residues of our overwhelming experiences shape our felt sense of safety in the present. The awareness can be a lens for compassion and curiosity for ourselves and others.
Tapestry of Wisdom: Prayer, a curated collection
“Prayers are tools not for doing or getting, but for being and becoming.” Follow the threads that call you and listen for what is stirred with you.
To Christian parents receiving news that your child is gay
One day your child may summon the courage to tell you their most tender truth. Here’s what I wish I would have known before mine did.
Sorrow & Joy
A playlist for days we are holding the paradox of Sorrow & Joy. Naming and feeling our own pain reminds of our connectedness to others, in sorrow and love.
Tapestry of Wisdom: Grief, a curated collection
Off-the-beaten-path threads of spiritual wisdom woven into a tapestry of wisdom on grief. Whether we are grieving the loss of a loved one, a faith community, a dream, or a self-image, in attuning to our felt sense granularly, we bear witness.
On Poetry and Brain Rest
I was in a minor car accident a couple of weeks ago. Though not badly hurt, I received a prescription for brain rest. My doctor also suggested bundling up and going outside to be among the trees and birds. Nature as medicine.
Curious Graces Are Everywhere, A Soulspace Fall Playlist
“What if all of the love that you ever dream of already belongs to you?” —Jess Ray
Note to Self
Waiting for medical test results, I found it difficult to get a deep breath. Worst-case scenarios danced in my head. I took a walk, capturing images along the way. As I contemplated this image, my soul gifted me this blessing.
Please Tell Me What To Do: The Gift of *Not* Receiving What I Thought I Wanted in Spiritual Direction
My spiritual director wouldn’t give in to my pleas for a narrow way. As I look back now, I see that in her wisdom, she resisted the human temptation to “fix” or “save” me.
When In Doubt, A Lectio Divina Podcast
Spiritual Director Todd Spencer provides a weekly opportunity to engage in Lectio Divina, a sacred reading prayer practice.
Teju Cole – And Then You Have This Moment
This On Being short video is an invitation to notice what moves us. What does it stir in you?
I Like You As You Are
This episode is food for the soul. I find it deeply resonant with my image of spiritual direction. It was my favorite podcast episode of 2020.
Aundi Kolber on Trauma and "Trying Softer"
If you’re weary of trying harder, trauma therapist Aundi Kolber suggests an alternative— trying softer.
The Gift of Presence, The Perils of Advice
The human soul doesn’t want to be advised or fixed or saved. It simply wants to be witnessed — to be seen, heard and companioned exactly as it is.” Parker Palmer